We seldom, allow ourselves the privilege of opening up anymore. With fear of judgement and lack of trust, we have to ask if it’s our misgivings or just the fear of being vulnerable. Like being naked in the middle of winters frost. Is it the cold or the nakedness that we fear most. When we stop to ponder these thoughts. The truth of our humanness is revealed. It becomes clear that how others choose to view us is far more important than any knowledge that maybe gained from the experience. The truth is that other people’s opinions matter, far more than they should.